Some Recommendations to Help Your Relationship
More than often, couples neglect their relationships. We seem to push love aside when our lives get busy. Being complacent is part of the reasons why. We have this notion that once our relationship have gotten far, we tend to assume that it can take care of itself. Our busy lives is one of the main factors that will not make you spend time together, plus if you have different hobbies, then the more you will not spend time together.
It may be important to have private hobbies, but there should come a time when you have to have a hobby that both of you love in order to nurture your relationship. And so to bring you close together again, here are some considerations that both of you can take.
First is to get fit together, considering that this is the most rewarding thing that we can do for ourselves. As relationship means support for each other, doing this activity would be sensible to do together. It is a good time to make a commitment to make your activity work and thus bring you closer. It is also nice to have a matching workout clothing, agree ton time and exercise style together. You can also split your sessions to accommodate what the other likes and thus practice compromising on decisions.
Another activity that you can do together is art class to cultivate the creative side of both of you. It is worth joining for example a pottery class or creative writing which give you a means to express your feelings and improve your relationship.
Your next option is to spend time to cook together and create fun memories out of that. Cooking can be stressful too but try to make it a fun activity. Cooking is a great time to break down stereotypical roles, like if you are more of a chef then you can become the teacher. You will have fun practicing responsibility in cooking, since two chefs in the house would mean share of tasks and not leaving it to one person alone. It is nice to avoid cooking that will create stress, so you can start making small meals. The goal here is to enjoy the experience you have together while cooking. Do not think of the pressure to create a great meal, your objective is the fun of being together and form a bond that will not deteriorate fast in your relationship.
Many other activities can be thought and planned, but make sure that the activity will make you end up doing things together that will enhance your boring relationship already.